Why Men are not Obsessed with Women Anymore

 A woman on Facebook wrote:

"Men just aren't obsessed with woman anymore, and it's weird".
My response below.
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Blame Feminism, as well as the fact that boys aren't taught or wired to compete with women.

I just had an interesting talk with my 2 grandsons and grand-daughter. She feels left out because there are no girls her age around to play with, and she gets frustrated that the boys always win in sports. I tried to tell her that losing is part of learning to win because it makes you practice and get better. But the fact is boys are generally physically stronger and have an advantage. The boys on the other hand get tired of letting her win because boys are wired by God or evolution to compete and win.

When girls "want to be one of the boys or be better than boys", or when girl power and "girls are strong" is the theme then it triggers a competitiveness in relationships. This applies to marriage and/or dating. Our culture is set up, for better or worse, in which men have to compete against each other all the time. We view that as normal, but men really have no desire to compete against women.

Why?

Because our culture views male competition to win over other men as normal, but we are taught to not hurt women. Yet when women want to compete with men it creates a conflict in men between winning over women vs not wanting to hurt them. Men would rather not deal with that mess and just walk away or they will just have sex with them and walk away.

Plus, men want respect. That translates into noticing what they do that's healthy, moral, and skillful. A lot of men are down on themselves because they compete and don't always win over other men. Just watch sports and see how depressed men get when they lose. They are down on themselves already and need someone to encourage them and help them believe in themselves that they can win next time. Most men won't admit what I just said but it is a psychological reality. Encourage the man, show him that you really believe in him, and you'll have his heart. The dude will die for you. Insult him or nag him, and you can kiss his ass goodbye.

How to End a Marriage

 "You're too Stupid to Manage Money"

That was a wife's words to a man who was already depressed because he could not work. He was ill, frustrated with God and at times vented his anger towards God. He tried to help around the house, tried to be a good man and husband, but it was not enough. His depression and anger at God eventually ended the marriage.

Or did it?

Most divorces are initiated by women who point out the man's flaws while minimizes or ignoring their contributions to the failed marriage. There's no excuse for anger towards God, but it does happen. Depression may not be avoidable, but it can be treated.

Both of those can wear down any relationship.

But to insult a man when he is already down is a sure-fire way to tune him out and end the relationship. The moment she called him stupid when he was already down, was the day the marriage ended.

It's a biblical, relational, and psychological truth; insult and nag a man and you can kiss your relationship goodbye. He many not leave you physically, but his heart will be somewhere else. When he finds another woman to do what you were supposed to do, then look in the mirror and ask, "did I do anything to contribute to this situation"? Not saying to excuse adultery or any type of abuse, but just pointing out that a woman's words can make or break a relationship.

You want power as a woman over a man? Then stroke his ego and build him up, especially when he is down. You will have him in the palm of your hand and he will walk on hot coals for you.

If the thought of praising a man is repulsive to you, then perhaps you should consider remaining single.

I know, I know. I can hear the women now.

"Yeah, but men need to do the same towards women". Yep they do. If you are waiting for him to praise you when he's down then why did you marry him? Did you want a personal servant or a personal relationship and commitment. Lift him up when he is down and he will do the same for you. (If he is a normal/healthy man).

Modern Feminism Creates Monsters

 Yep, I'm writing more about how feminism ruins relationships.

If it does not apply then do not reply.

After witnessing these vile, filthy, immoral, and deranged women scream about their reproductive "rights" to kill a baby in the womb, after the SCOTUS decision; I decided to voice my opinion all over social media. My blog, FB, Twitter, Gab, and everywhere else.

The modern feminist doctrine has created monsters and cold hearted murderers. These women deny the fathers the right to keep the baby, but then defame the men for having sex with them.
It takes two naked people to make a baby, the last time I checked biological realities. Unless the woman has artificial insemination, but she still needs a man's sperm to have a baby!

I have read of women deliberately getting pregnant just to experience the process; all the while planning to have an abortion because they did not want to "ruin their careers" with the responsibility of raising a child.

Evil, demonic, ungodly, filthy and vile witches! That doesn't even fit within the doctrine of evolution! Ever hear of natural selection? These women practice unnatural selection and play god with life and death.

She wants sex, refuses a fathers right to have his child, drives him away with her feminist behavior, then makes herself a victim over being a single mom, but bitches because he won't stay around and be a dad.

Grow up and close your legs. Take some responsibility for your own behavior. Hint: Adam and Eve did the same to one another i.e. they blamed one another for their poor choices.

Nothing new under the sun.