Wounded parents are adults who are raising children yet have never fully dealt with their own childhood traumas and wounds. Consequently they often pass their wounds on to their children. They don't do it intentionally, but as Jesus said, whatever is of an abundance on the heart the mouth speaks. From a psychological point of view, whatever is of an abundance on the heart is displayed through either functional or dysfunctional behaviors.
These are usually not bad parents but simply wounded parents that need inner healing, or in biblical terms, healing of the heart. Sadly, they are hesitant to get professional help because of the stigma placed upon those who are brave enough, and smart enough, to seek out a counselor.
Father give these wounded parents the courage to break the cycle of wounding in their families. Let their love for their children be stronger than protecting their reputation. Pour out your Spirit of love upon them so that their fears are removed and their healing can begin.
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